While fantasy and fascination with erotic humiliation is a prevalent part of BDSM and other sexual roleplay, relatively little has been written on it. For example, between gay people, terms usually associated with homophobia may be used, such as faggot and dyke. It can also be for a set period of time a " scene " or an ongoing facet of a relationship. For some people, activities such as name-calling are a way of achieving ego reduction or getting over sexual inhibitions. When it is a part of the cuckolding fetish, the fantasy involves the "other man" having impregnated her, and his sperm being stronger than yours, and several other kinds of agreed-to humilation. For example, being spanked is primarily valued because of the belittlement involved.
Elliott. Age: 21.
This can be for either the person s being humiliated and demeaned or the person s humiliating, or both.
Ember. Age: 21.
It can be as basic as the desire to kiss and massage feet as a precursor to sex; and it can be complex, involving roleplay and public displays of subservience. Erotic humiliation is consensual psychological humiliation performed in order to produce erotic excitement or sexual arousal. When someone reveals a fetish to a partner, this usually is a result of great trust. They invest specific acts, objects, or body parts with a humiliating aspect.